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If I could go back in time and speak to my younger self, there are so many things I would want to say. The struggles of navigating identity, the uncertainty of finding a community, and the overwhelming weight of feeling misunderstood all seem so vivid in hindsight. But one thing I’d want to remind myself—and others going through a similar journey—is that it’s okay to not have all the answers right away. The path to self-discovery is not linear, and it’s filled with moments of questioning, growth, and, ultimately, liberation.

In this video, we hear from individuals who reflect on their journeys and offer heartfelt messages to their younger selves. These messages are filled with wisdom, compassion, and encouragement—reminders that, even in the hardest moments, they were exactly where they needed to be. 

Whether you’re just beginning your gender journey or have been navigating it for awhile, the message is clear: You are valid, you are worthy, and the struggles you face today will shape the person you become tomorrow.