If I could go back in time and speak to my younger self, there are so many things I would want to say. The struggles of navigating identity, the uncertainty of finding a community, and the overwhelming weight of feeling misunderstood all seem so vivid in hindsight. But one thing I’d want to remind myself—and others going through a similar journey—is that it’s okay to not have all the answers right away. The path to self-discovery is not linear, and it’s filled with moments of questioning, growth, and, ultimately, liberation.
In this video, we hear from individuals who reflect on their journeys and offer heartfelt messages to their younger selves. These messages are filled with wisdom, compassion, and encouragement—reminders that, even in the hardest moments, they were exactly where they needed to be.
Whether you’re just beginning your gender journey or have been navigating it for awhile, the message is clear: You are valid, you are worthy, and the struggles you face today will shape the person you become tomorrow.
Supporting a trans child can be a life-changing and rewarding experience, but it can also be challenging as parents and caregivers navigate new terrain. The love and guidance you provide can make all the difference in helping your child feel seen, heard, and accepted as they explore their gender identity. But how do you best support them during this journey?
In this blog post, Eli shares their tips for parents, caregivers, and loved ones who want to offer their unconditional support. From listening with empathy and respecting your child’s pronouns to advocating for their rights and providing access to affirming resources, the journey of supporting a trans child requires both patience and understanding.
We also explore the importance of fostering a safe and loving environment where your child feels comfortable expressing themselves without fear of rejection. Whether your child is just beginning to explore their gender identity or has already taken steps toward transitioning, this post offers valuable guidance on how to be an ally, advocate, and unwavering source of support.
Every step you take to affirm your child’s identity helps build their confidence and reinforces their sense of self-worth. In the end, the greatest gift you can give is unconditional love and acceptance.
It was apparent from a very young age that Eli had a maturity and self-confidence beyond their years. By self-confidence I don’t mean they were loud or showy; I mean they were robust and didn’t let many things get them down or get in their way.
These attributes meant that I always found Eli to be a good sounding board - even as a kid. Their view of the world and people in it was always calm, measured, balanced and sensible.
